Why Logistics Will Often Trump 10/10 Game
Having amazing logistics is probably the single most underrated and underemphasized part of game in the mainstream advice. In fact, it’s hardly ever discussed at all, and when it is, it’s treated as an afterthought. Why? Probably because these guys are selling you pickup advice, not real estate. It’s so undervalue that I’ve even heard guys with large followings claim that logistics is only 5% of the dating women and the other 95% is attraction because, “If the girl likes you enough then she’ll be willing to travel 45 minutes away through a rain forest to your home (and back) at 1 a.m. to sleep with you even though she has to fly a plane with 200 people boarded for 16 hours the very next morning and won’t get any sleep.”
Realistically, this is a load of bullshit. Most women simply won’t sleep with you no matter how much they like you if there isn’t a simple way to do it. Point blank. But, it works the other way too. Many women will be really down to sleep with you if you have great logistics just because the sex is fun and there won’t be a big headache to making it happen.
It’s like when your friend asks you at 1 a.m. if you want to travel 45 minutes across the city to get an amazing cheeseburger when you have work early the next day. You like your friend and you want the amazing cheeseburger, but who the fuck wants to travel that far at that hour? Not a whole lot of people. And I’d bet you’d even be way more down to get an OK cheeseburger, or even one you haven’t tried yet, simply because it’ll taste alright and won’t be a pain in the ass to get.
I don’t want you to take this advice to mean that you shouldn’t go out consistently and learn this skill set. You should, and you should learn it well. But you should understand how important logistics are, and learn to use them for your advantage.
My findings, and everyone I know that had a proven and consistent level of success with beautiful women, would argue that “game” is closer to 80% logistics and only 20% attraction/comfort; and the reason is simple: the girl only needs to be comfortable enough to be sexual with you (20%), and the rest is whether or not she can actually go home with you (80%).
Even a girl that really likes you can have a multitude of reasons why she genuinely can’t go home with you, especially if you don’t live anywhere near the date/meet location. Women will often be with friends or on their way to meet friends, have to be up early / are leaving soon, etc. and if you live far, it’ll be very unlikely that anything sexual can happen.
You don’t want to buy into the 95% attraction and 5% logistics method. Guys who follow this advice typically spend 45 min to a couple of hours speaking to girls that are never going to leave with them because the logistics suck. And because they believe that a lot of attraction is needed for her to leave with them (95%), they spend all those hours telling story after story, joke after witty comment after push-pull after whatever to win her over even though she would have left with them hours ago had they simply had logistics. And now, without logistics she’ll rarely leave with those guys anyway even after all the effort.
If you’re learning how to get good at pulling women home, you don’t want to be squandering your time speaking to girls for a few hours before trying to hook up with them at home (although better to be this guy than not approaching at all). You want transition out of the 95% attraction and 5% logistics mentality as soon as possible, and focus on improving your logistics. I don’t care what you have to do, MAKE IT HAPPEN. No excuses.
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